Q: “My kids are too young to appreciate the meaning of ‘Father’s Day’ – do I buy my husband a gift anyway?”
A: Absolutely the right thing to do. How about a box of your husband’s favorite chocolates or his favorite, a jumbo bag of strawberry Twizzlers with a few pictures of the kids holding the bag with a card and the year 2012? Watch your husband’s eyes light up – at the pictures of course. Or, what about a handmade card for dad? If your children are too young to color or paint, dip their little toes in some non-toxic paint and make a paint impression of their little feet.
Q: “Our kids are states away…how do you recommend we celebrate Father’s Day?“
A: Your kids are likely as busy as can be with school, social lives and maybe even part-time jobs. Remind them that Father’s Day is coming up, and ask what they have planned to show their appreciation for their Dad. Just because they can’t come home for Father’s Day doesn’t mean they can’t make it special for Dad. If you have Skype or Facetime on your iPhone, take the time to test it out before the big day arrives and surprise Dad with a special video call from the kids.
Q: “How should I celebrate Father’s Day with my stepfather and biological father?“
A: Every family dynamic is different. If you are blessed with a father and stepfather, make separate time for each of them. Who says you have to celebrate on a particular day? Make it a point to spend time with those you love, regardless of the day. Express your gratitude for the positive impact they’ve made on your life.
Q: “My father is no longer with us. How can I honor his memory?”
A: Continuing to honor your Dad on Father’s Day is truly a wonderful idea. What mattered most to your father? Was he a veteran? Did he love animals? Consider volunteering for a cause you know he cared deeply about. Or, make a donation in his honor. Lastly, take extra care of your mother if she is still with you – something you know he’d want you to do.
Q: “Help! I’m torn between celebrating Father’s Day with my own Dad, the father of my children, and my father-in-law. Since we each live in different cities, much of the day is spent traveling, leaving me feeling less than grateful at the end of a long day. Any suggestions?”
A: Find a centralized place on the map that would require the least amount of drive time for Father’s Day. Plan a fun “Fathers Day Out” itinerary that takes advantage of the attractions and amenities found there. Let Dad, husband and father-in-law (plus mom and mother-in-law) know the special plans ahead of time. Enjoying a new place together and having more time to do so will likely make the drive more bearable for all parties. A good “Plan B” may mean celebrating with one set of parents on Saturday, and the other set on Sunday.
Warm Father’s Day Wishes,