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Holiday Etiquette: Thanksgiving Blessings and Gratitude

22 Nov 2011 By: Diane Gottsman

This Thanksgiving I’m taking inventory of a few people and things I’m extremely grateful for, for blessings and gratitude. Who and what is on your T-H-A-N-K-S-G-I-V-I-N-G list this year?

T – My Twitter friends! Yes, Twitter is my first gratitude bullet (because T is the first letter of Thanksgiving!), and while some who do not appreciate the importance of social media may not understand, I have met some wonderful people through this venue and built relationships that have impacted my life in such a positive way. While I don’t have enough room to mention each and every one of them, I am continuously amazed by the power of 140 characters. To all my Twitter friends, I am better for having met you.

H – Health, healing and hope: Because after extensive challenges with all three, I am proof that hope (prayer and a few good doctors) can heal your health. And, of course, my husband, the best soccer mom I know. A shiny new minivan could be in your future…(NOT). Oh, and I am grateful for hugs, hugs and more hugs (not necessarily in business…but sometimes!)

A – A is also for the apple pie that my neighbor always brings over during the holiday season (may this serve as a friendly reminder that I am anxiously waiting).

N – Noodles, nachos and Nutty Bars by Little Debbie. Yikes, I’m a junk food lover!

K – My kids, who I love beyond words. I continue to pray that you realize that there are endless opportunities to make a difference in this world. Just do the right thing and you will never lose your way.

S – Sylvia, Lisa and Marcia for celebrating multiple years of Christmas Tea. I love our annual tradition.

G – Gifts, gifts and gifts. The gift of time, the gift of service and the gift of compassion, today, tomorrow and forever.

I – Invitations. I love receiving beautiful cards in the mail that request the presence of my company. Handwritten, hot stamped, or engraved, it doesn’t matter, it’s the thought that counts. The truth is, I appreciate all cards I receive in the mail, handwritten, heartfelt and sincere, please.

V – Vacation travel and the flu vaccine. I couldn’t make it through winter without either one of these.

I – Integrity. Without it, nothing else matters.

N – My nanny Claudia, who has been with me for 15 years and is a part of my family. She cares more about whether or not I take my morning multivitamin than I do.

G – Geoff, my best friend and my children’s godfather, who has been with us for so many years, so many memories and so much fun! I am eternally grateful for “U” in our life.

Whatever is on your list this year, remember that Thanksgiving is not just about one day. It’s about a daily celebration of small blessings and gratitude that spans a lifetime. If you are reading this now, I am grateful for you. God bless you and Happy Thanksgiving.

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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  1. Jonnie Fox Flanagan says

    November 22, 2011 at 11:46 pm

    A very happy Thanksgiving to you too Diane. I loved reading this and I am grateful for having made your “Twitter acquaintance”, the helpful phone calls we’ve shared, and the inspiration that you are to me.

    Have a beautiful day.

    Your San Diego etiquette pal,
    Jonnie

  2. Sylvia Bailiff says

    November 23, 2011 at 3:43 am

    I’m thankful for you too Diane…my bestfriend and for all the Christmas Teas we have had together. You have taught me a lot about life and I’m grateful for that. Love You!

  3. Diane says

    November 27, 2011 at 5:01 pm

    Sweet Sylvia, Thank you for your kind comment! I’m thankful for your friendship and the wonderful memories. Here’s to many, many more. xo!

  4. Diane says

    November 27, 2011 at 5:02 pm

    Jonnie, Thank you for stopping by to share such a lovely comment. I’m very thankful for Twitter bringing us together and am happy to call you a friend! Have a wonderful holiday. xo!

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