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Ask the Etiquette Expert: Tipping Uber and Lyft Drivers

10 Sep 2015 By: Diane Gottsman

Tipping Etiquette: How to Tip Your Uber/Lyft Drivers

Etiquette expert and modern manners authority Diane Gottsman answers a reader question regarding tipping etiquette in relation to your Uber and Lyft Driver.

Dear Diane,

I was wondering if you could help my colleague and I settle a friendly debate regarding whether or not we should tip the Uber driver. I believe tipping is the right thing to do, but he pointed out that their website clearly states “no need to tip.” Any advice?

Taylor N.

Dear Taylor,

What a timely question, and a topic that has been in the spotlight lately. I recently came across a “Tip Your Uber Driver” t-shirt online which reminded me of the confusion people often experience.

As far as the company’s official stance, Uber is clearly in the “no tip is necessary” camp, whereas one of their competitors, Lyft, provides the option to add gratuity within their app. You can even send one later if you forget!

Perhaps this dilemma would be less complicated if the discussion was limited to UberTAXI, where a tip is automatically included (as mentioned on their website here).  However, when traveling by UberX or UberBlack, a tip is NOT factored into the cost of the fare, and is still discouraged by Uber.

What’s a mannerly passenger to do? If you feel inclined, carry enough cash to offer your Uber driver a tip. It is certainly not required, but for superior service it would be a nice gesture. Leave it up to your driver to accept or politely decline.

If Uber were to add an across the board tipping option, there would be at least 27,000 happy consumers according to this online petition.  Of equal importance is remembering to leave your driver a positive review after you have reached your destination.

Happy travels,

Diane

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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