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How To Get Back On Track After Losing Sight Of A Goal

05 Aug 2016 By: Diane Gottsman

Whether it’s achieving a certain level of professional success or maintaining healthy eating habits, we set goals with the best intentions and start by pursuing them with enthusiasm.

Back on Track

This article originally appeared on The Huffington Post

It’s easy for those big ideas to fall by the wayside when our schedules get disrupted or we have an emotional setback. Under stress, it’s often difficult to sustain the energy we had at the beginning. Whatever the reason for getting off track, it can be even harder to resume our efforts than it was to start them in the first place. Even those with the most steely resolve lose steam once in a while.

Here are five ways to refocus on your objective and maintain your momentum when you stray off the path.

1. Redefine success.
Maybe your plan was to go to the gym every single day, and you actually managed to do this for awhile before missing a few days and then giving up altogether. When you set lofty ambitions and then fall short, it’s easy to abandon the whole idea and feel like a failure. But in a situation like this, it’s best to re-evaluate your objective and set more realistic goals. Instead of hitting the gym for an hour each day, start with 30 minute increments. You can always step up your game later once the habit becomes a routine.

2. Schedule it.
You put meetings, project deadlines, medical appointments and social engagements on your calendar; make a point to add the time to work toward your goal(s) there as well. For example, if your aspiration is to declutter your workspace and organize computer files, block out space in your calendar and set a reminder in Outlook or on your phone so you’ll remember to tackle it each day.

3. Consider your timing.
Set yourself up for success by working with your natural inclinations. For example, if you are taking on extra education outside of work that requires you to study, identify an opening in your routine for schoolwork that suits your personality and preferences.

If you aren’t a morning person, setting an alarm get up at 5 a.m. each day to tackle an assignment before you go to the office is probably unsustainable. Instead, block out an hour in the evening to devote to homework.

4. Set the stage.
Often we fail because we make grand declarations of our intent, and then do absolutely nothing to prepare for our new commitment. Pave the way for yourself by taking care of the details: if you want to be a better networker, write down the steps you need to take, whether it’s joining a professional association, participating in more events outside of work, or reaching out to strengthen ties with existing contacts.

Keep notecards and stamps handy so you can jot a note of congratulations or another personal message when you hear news about someone in your circle. Beef up your online presence on professional networking platforms to help facilitate relationship building. Lay a solid foundation that is conducive to success.

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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