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Eight Ways to Enjoy a Festive Fourth of July on the Lake

03 Jul 2019 By: Diane Gottsman

If a trip to the lake is in your July 4th plans this year, I’m sharing some Lake Etiquette tips for a summer celebration. Just add a floppy hat and a bottle of sunscreen to the mix, and you are ready to celebrate!

Boating Etiquette

Keep reading for eight reminders for a fantastic fourth on the water with friends, family and fellow boaters.

Lake Etiquette:

The Ramp is Not a Cocktail Party

Follow the proper protocol when you are setting out to launch your boat into the water. Don’t perch on the ramp and listen to music or visit with neighbors and friends while others are trying to get in the water behind you. At a public park, this area is the launch pad for multiple boats (people are anxiously waiting for their turn). Be efficient with your time.

Follow the Park Rules

If it’s a private park for residents and neighbors only, don’t attempt to sneak in unnoticed. You will be promptly reported, and your entire boat of people will be embarrassed when the lake police stop you. Traveling a few extra miles to a public lake will grant you and your guests peace of mind.

Slow Down and Respect the No Wake Zone

Not only does speed cause waves in the wrong areas, but it could be dangerous. Be respectful of the designated no wake zones and realize that police watch very carefully. You could potentially be responsible for the cost of damages. Wake zones are created to protect both people, property and the shoreline. Slow down significantly; typically a wake no more than 6 inches high is a safe bet, but observe posted signs.

Pass Other Boats and Watercraft with Caution

Give those in boats and jet skis appropriate space when passing. Be vigilant and communicate with other boaters. Not only is it friendly to wave and acknowledge fellow water lovers, but it’s also a signal that they see you and you see them. Doing so is especially important when there are skiers and swimmers in the water.

Coordinate Snacks and Lunch Before Launch

If your outing overlaps lunch or dinnertime, nail down options before getting into the water. In addition to water and beverages mentioned further below, everyone should be on the same page about the day’s menu. Perhaps you’ve agreed to stop by a lakeside restaurant or picnic baskets and blankets are all set. Call in advance if you anticipate a wait (and check to be sure your favorite spot is open).

Save Your Trash Until You Get Off the Boat

Common sense would dictate you not litter on the lake, but with gusts of wind, you could easily lose bags, hats and fly away items in your boat. Secure anything that is loose and could potentially fly overboard, including life jackets.

Gas and Go

When you stop for gas at the local lake station, find another place to park after you fuel up if you plan to stock up on snacks. If the dock attendant has to do heavy lifting, consider tipping a few dollars. Otherwise, it’s not necessary to tip the gas attendant.

Hydrate and Rest

If you are planning an outing, have plenty of water on the boat. It’s hot outside, and you want to be certain everyone is hydrated and protected from the heat. Offer shade if possible, as well as towels and sunscreen. Monitor your guests and make sure they are not uncomfortable or overheated. Take a break and go back out later if people are getting tired.

You may also like Fourth of July Entertaining Etiquette. For more of Diane’s etiquette tips, “like” The Protocol School of Texas on Facebook, and follow Diane on Pinterest, Instagram and Twitter. Buy her new book, Modern Etiquette for a Better Life. 

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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