How to Be a Good Apartment Neighbor in the Age of Social Distancing

A few short months ago, being a good apartment neighbor would have taken a different turn. But in the day of social distancing, there are some new rules we should remember when dwelling in a shared building space.

Take All Safety Precautions

Wash your hands often and keep physical distance because the virus can spread and the kindest thing you can do for yourself and your neighbors is to protect each other.

Reach Out and Check on Each Other

People are feeling lonely and isolated during this time. Call, text or facetime your neighbors to check on them or have a real conversation – which lasts a few minutes and gives each of you social interaction.

Remember Your Tone of Voice

You can hear a smile through your tone of voice. Since you can’t have physical contact right now, a genuine smile from a distance is as important as a hug – either in person or over the phone.

Offer Your Help

Ask specifically what your neighbor(s) need or what you can do to help. Someone may feel embarrassed to ask for a stick of butter or another basic household item. When you ask someone if they need something, it often makes them feel safe and they might tell you how you can be of help or service.

Spearhead or be a part of a building emergency response effort in case a neighbor needs support or help. Make a list of what each neighbor may be willing to do – pick up prescriptions, cook a pot of chicken soup, anything that could help another neighbor in need.

Organize a Virtual Book Club

Some neighbors may be interested in exchanging thoughts on good books, recipes, ideas or just visiting virtually. Organize a virtual party and invite people to attend. Show those who are not tech-savvy how to do it so they don’t feel left out. Remember to continue to practice social distancing.

Be Patient and Kind

Treat the doorman and building staff with kindness. They are working hard to keep your apartment building up and running. This is a difficult time for everyone and showing gratitude is truly appreciated.

Be patient. There may be more noise in the building since everyone is working from home and kids are cooped up all day. Show understanding during this difficult time and realize everyone is learning how to adjust to a new normal.

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