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How To Know if Your Job Is Right for You

21 Feb 2022 By: Diane Gottsman

Dreaming of a better job is practically a national pastime, according to a recent survey. The study found that only 49% of American workers consider themselves very content with their work, with another 30% saying they are somewhat satisfied. Just 20% of Americans reported being genuinely passionate about their jobs. Wherever you fall on that spectrum, you may be wondering how to know if your job is right for you. You’re not alone. The pandemic has led many people to reconsider their careers, with a surge in people leaving jobs, moving to new locations and making other significant life changes.

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If you question whether your current role is a good fit, consider it from all angles. Even if it falls short in some areas, it may still offer enough benefits to make it worthwhile. Here are 7 signs that you’re in the right place – at least for now.

How To Know if Your Job Is Right for You

It Fits Your Current Priorities

There are different seasons in life, and a job that’s right for one stage may not work in another. For example, it might be difficult for you to pursue a demanding career that involves a lot of travel or long hours when you have children at home. A position that may not be as satisfying or pay as much, but offers a flexible schedule or the ability to work from home, may be exactly what you need for now. If you are not in the role of your dreams, but it allows you to pour into other priorities, like raising children or caring for aging parents, it may be the right place for you in this chapter of life.

You’re Moving in the Right Direction

If you regularly learn things at work that you feel will be valuable to you in the future, and you are using your strengths in an authentic way instead of struggling to do a job that doesn’t suit your skills or personality, you are probably in a good place. Even if it’s not your dream job, it may be an effective stepping stone on the way there.

You’re Surrounded by Talented People

The right people can make almost any job better. If you work with people you admire, who are in positions that you would like to progress towards, who freely share their knowledge, and who encourage you to grow, you are benefiting professionally. Even if you know you’re not there for the long term, use this as a chance to learn, network and build relationships that you can carry with you into the future.

Your Work Is Meaningful

Feeling like your work matters can make a big impact on your job satisfaction. Whether it’s helping a group of people close to your heart, working on a cause or issue that matters to you, or just making a difference in the lives of your customers, don’t overlook the value of rewarding work.

You Are Well Compensated

Money isn’t everything, but a nice paycheck can help minimize any career’s less desirable qualities. If your daily grind is not particularly exciting or fulfilling, but you are making good money, consider saving and planning your finances to create the freedom to pursue something more rewarding in the future.

Your Contributions Are Valued

Consider whether your efforts are appreciated or even noticed. If your boss, coworkers and clients acknowledge your contributions, that’s a good sign. On the other hand, if you feel your work often goes unrecognized or is frequently criticized, you may need to consider other options.

You Are Routinely Challenged

If you are frequently disengaged and bored at work, it may be time to look at other opportunities; you’re not bringing your best to the job if you truly don’t care. If your position is so demanding that you’re experiencing chronic stress, you feel ill on Sunday evenings before a new work week begins or your health is suffering, those are red flags that your job is not a good fit. Every job has stressful moments, but if you find your work offers opportunities to grow and develop professionally without the threat of burnout, you’re probably in a good spot.

Are you interested in additional resources around how to know if your job is right for you? Head over to HuffPost for 9 Signs It’s Time To Look For A New Job. Be sure to check out The Protocol School of Texas. Read Diane’s posts on Inc., subscribe to her articles on The Huffington Post, “like” The Protocol School of Texas on Facebook, and follow her on Pinterest, Instagram and Twitter. 

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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