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How to Look for a Job Without Burning a Bridge

31 Oct 2022 By: Diane Gottsman

There are many reasons you may want to look for another job opportunity, from preferring to work remote to changing your career path, but leaving on good terms is always the best professional choice. There may be an occasion in the future where you have to call on these former coworkers or managers. Keep your relationship with them positive instead of burning bridges to the ground.

How to Look for a Job | Low angle view of Black businessman in classic suit holding a laptop and smiling while leaving the office building

Here are five tips for gracefully handling a job departure (previously published on HuffPost).

1. Don’t Look for Positions on Company Time

You’re unhappy in your current place, so you’re already looking for what you can do next. It can be tempting to occupy yourself during a lull in your day by browsing open listings or postings on LinkedIn. Refrain from researching open positions on company time. It comes off as incredibly unprofessional. Use personal time outside of work for job hunting.

2. Don’t Interview While on the Clock

Just like you shouldn’t look for work, you also shouldn’t be meeting with other businesses during the work day. Schedule an interview over your lunch break, or take a personal day. When you accept a job, your employer may remember all of your random tales related to your absences.

3. Give as Much Notice as Possible

You just heard back from the company you interviewed with, and you got the job. Congratulations! Now you have to let your current organization know.

While two weeks’ notice is the norm, if you know sooner, give your boss a heads-up. It can sometimes take months to fill a vacancy between posting the position online, going through resumes and scheduling interviews. The more time the hiring manager has to find a replacement, the better.

4. Avoid Mentally Checking Out

You’re waiting to start at your new office and only have a few days left at your current job. Finish up pending projects and close out your employment on the right note. Leaving with everything in order will keep you in good standing.

Now’s not the time to start coasting. While you should avoid any long-term work, fill your days with worthwhile projects that are short-term until your parting date.

5. Give a Helpful Exit Interview

This is a great opportunity to be honest, however, you want to be gracious. You may have hated your loud coworker or thought the work was boring, but keep those feelings to yourself.

Give constructive feedback so the company can improve. Don’t badmouth anyone, especially if you want a reference. Be kind and professional throughout the entire process and thank your employer for the opportunity to have learned and developed your executive skills.

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Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

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