Do you have a gently used purse, tote, or athletic bag you don’t know what to do with, taking up space in your closet? Rather than stashing items away in a drawer, or throwing them in the trash, do something nice for the less fortunate and declutter your home in the process. There are plenty of opportunities to help another person in need. Gather some friends and family members, or do this project on your own. Make it an office project, or ask your tennis team, or your book club, to participate in this act of kindness.
The weather will soon be turning frosty or is already freezing in your part of the world, and filling a bag with supplies for someone you see living on the street, in need of help, would be of great assistance.
Go through your closets for regifts waiting to be given to the right person, a.k.a. a warm jacket, scarf, heavy socks, sweaters, and the like. Check your pantry, or take a trip to your local grocer, and put a few supply bags together that you can hand out when you see someone who could benefit from some extra care.
Everything on this list should be new, or in excellent condition:
- Large Tooth Comb
- Small First Aid Kit
- Lip Balm/Chapstick
- Baby Wipes or Cleansing Wipes
- Bandages – Large
- Deodorant
- Toothbrush and Toothpaste
- Nail Clippers
- Tissue Pack
- Blanket
- Gloves
- Wool Hat
- Jacket (for Cold Regions)
- Package of T-shirts
- Socks – Thick and Sturdy
- Weather Protection
- Travel Mug
- Tuna and Chicken Packets – Not Cans
- Soft Breakfast Bars
- Cheese or Peanut Crackers
- Dried Fruits
- Plastic Utensil Packets
- Vitamin C Tabs
- Optional Gift Card for Fast Food
- $5.00 in Singles and Additional Coins for Laundry, in a Zip Lock
I know and understand why some people say giving money is not a good idea, and agreeably, it may not be used for the right reasons, but it is not your journey to walk. If you are giving for the right reason, you can hope they use the cash to buy a small necessity, and that is really all that matters when you are giving from the heart.
Tips for a Thoughtful Care Package:
Write a Note
If you are doing this with your children, friends, or on your own, writing a sentiment of inspiration, letting them know you are sending them prayers, warm wishes, or good vibes makes the gift more special. For some, it may mean nothing at all, but to others, it may make a difference in their day.
Be Respectful
Although the situation may not be optimum for you to stop and start a conversation, carefully handing someone a bag, and at the same time looking at them with a smile, rather than quickly tossing the bag to them, shows a level of respect to someone who is feeling low and invisible. Of course, personal safety is always top of mind, and you want to make sure to stay safe, preferably in a group, or in a well-lit area when offering a package to any stranger. Many times, they are on the street or sidewalk, and there are plenty of pedestrians around.
Avoid Poor Quality Anything
Just like in shelters, providing new PJs and underwear is the best option when giving a gift. This is basically what you are giving—a gift of kindness to someone in need. You can give a used sweater, blanket, or scarf if it is in good condition, but refrain from giving anything that is old, tattered, and in need of repair. Clean, heavy socks and warm gloves are commodities that are often difficult to come by for many homeless.
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