How to Avoid Stress this Holiday Season

Everyone loves the holidays! But, many people get overwhelmed with all of the extra commitments that are attached to the most wonderful time of the year. I am sharing a few of my personal tips that help me stay calm and merry during the happiest time of the year. And, if you need entertaining advice or more holiday tips, don’t forget to sign up for my e-course, The Ultimate Holiday Etiquette Toolkit (shameful plug but I wrote it so I KNOW how much you will LOVE it). The doors are closing Tuesday, 11/26 at 11:59 pm.

In the meantime, here are a few of my stress reducing holiday tips.

Purchase Gifts at the Grocery Store

You go on a weekly basis so use your time wisely. The grocer has beautiful gifts to give to friends and family. I have already stocked up on some lovely bottles of olive oil, unique boxes of tea and German tins of sweets. My girlfriend is from Germany, and I gave her a tin of cookies from German, which is also a music box. She had never seen one like it before and was thrilled with the gift. I used it as a hostess gift for a chili dinner she invited me to attend.

Stick to Your Calendar

If you already have a function on a particular date, honor the commitment and don’t try and spread yourself too thin. There is nothing wrong with declining an invitation by RSVPing quickly. Don’t wait until the last minute or it will look as if you are procrastinating to see if something better comes along.

Say something like, “It sounds like it’s going to be loads of fun but unfortunately, I have already RSVP’d yes to another event.” No one will fault you for honoring your first commitment.

Host a Pot Luck

I recently hosted a Friendsgiving Party and asked each guest to bring a special dish. I gave them the theme, which was “Thanksgiving” and the outcome was incredible. One girlfriend brought what she describes as “thanksgiving in every bite.” It was a platter of turkey meatballs made with cornbread stuffing and gravy. Another friend brought mashed potatoes, another brought cranberry sauce, and another brought the most decadent sea salt chocolate chip cookies. It was most fun because everyone contributed and we were able to enjoy each other’s special recipes. This can be a great conversation topic to avoid “politics” at the table.

Serve Store Bought Foods

Your in store menu choices are overwhelmingly delicious. You can select from a wide array of gluten free, keto friendly, nut free and regular food items. Set up stations with different foods from different regions of the country to add a special twist to your party. Have a dessert table and bar in a different location to encourage your guests to walk around and mingle with other guests.

Get Enough Sleep

I’m not a great sleeper on the best of days but when the holidays roll around, my schedule and my sleep habits really take a hit. I have found that setting a timer on my phone reminds me I should start shutting down the day and pamper myself before bedtime. Encourage sleep by shutting down your technology, grabbing a good magazine or book and sipping a soothing cup of chamomile tea. You may have your own relaxation habits but choose to do something to help you rest.

Make a List and Check it Twice

Just because someone brings you a gift doesn’t mean you must run out and reciprocate. If you weren’t planning on giving someone a gift, and they bring you something, say “Thank you so much”, and let them know you truly appreciate the gesture. You can bake something and deliver a loaf of pumpkin bread or take them to lunch after the busy holiday hustle. A true gift giver gives expecting nothing in return. If your original list did not include casual acquaintances, long lost cousins or unplanned givers, don’t stress out. Stick to your plan and keep your budget intact.

Try Something New

The holidays offer a multitude of choices when it comes to art, food and entertainment. I try and find something unique and different to see and do during the holiday season. Look for special pop up stores and special events in your area. Visit a neighboring town, take a wine tour, enjoy a holiday cooking class or find a Christmas market in your town. Take a friend or do it alone for some peace and solitude. The holidays are busy and everyone deserves to enjoy them their own way.

The Ultimate Holiday Toolkit E-Course:
I’ll be serving up my favorite holiday tips to make your season merry and bright. My Ultimate Holiday Toolkit e-course will cover everything from hosting a party, setting a table, being a gracious guest, holiday tipping (who to tip and how much) and so much more. You’ll get practical tips and helpful printable guides for easy reference. The doors are closing on 11/26 at 11:59 pm. I hope to see you there!