• Home
  • Blog
    • Archives
  • Etiquette Services
  • Media
  • About Diane
  • Books
    • Modern Etiquette for a Better Life
    • Pearls of Polish
  • Holiday Guides
    • Holiday Tipping Guide
    • Holiday Table Setting Guide
  • Contact

Diane Gottsman | Leading Etiquette Expert | Modern Manners Authority

Leading Etiquette Expert and Modern Manners Authority Diane Gottsman’s official blog, with Business Etiquette, University Etiquette, Social Media Etiquette, Dining Etiquette and more.

Elevator Etiquette: Courtesy to the Top Floor

15 May 2025 By: Diane Gottsman

Elevator etiquette | elevator buttons with hand pressing one

We have all experienced an awkward, uncomfortable, or annoying moment when getting on, riding up or down, or exiting an elevator. The following are some elevator etiquette do’s and don’ts that will avoid making your 30-second ride feel like a 30-minute nightmare.

Don’t Push Your Way In

If the elevator door opens and you see a cubicle of people, packed in like sardines, smile pleasantly and say, “I will wait for the next elevator.” Rather than saying, “Is there room for two more?” People don’t want to be rude and say no, and will generally allow you to enter at the expense of the rest of the angry crowd.

Move to the Left or Right

When you step in the elevator and it’s not crowded, take the opposite side of where the person is already standing. This will leave enough room for others to step in on the next floor.

Face Forward

Common sense is not always so common. When you enter the elevator, take your place and face forward instead of facing another person. Even in a crowded elevator, when you know several people, it’s considered polite to face forward and give people some personal space.

Step Aside When People Are Exiting

As you enter the next floor, consider that the people behind you may be getting off on this floor and step to the side, or even out of the elevator if you are up front, and hold the door open as people depart.

Keep Your Volume Down

Use your “indoor voice” while you are in the elevator. Don’t put people on speaker phone or talk loudly on your ride up or down. You are in close proximity to others, and in earshot of everyone in the car.

Get on Quickly and Be Ready to Ride

If you are ready to get on the elevator but you are still waiting for a friend, or your mate, either meet them in the lobby or get off and take the next elevator. Holding the door open, waiting for your friend to arrive, is rude and holds everyone on other floors up.

Avoid Lengthy Conversations

Holding the door open while you finish the conversation delays the rest of the passengers. Even if there is no one else in the elevator, someone else on another floor is waiting for the elevator car to arrive on their floor.

Let People Know Where You Stand

If you are in the back of the elevator and need to get off, don’t feel embarrassed to say, “Excuse me. This is my floor.”

Be Mindful Scent Lingers

Remember you are in a public space, and heavy cologne, vaping, or any other type of offensive odor will linger for the next passenger.

Be Respectful of Public Property

The elevator is the same as the lobby or someone’s living room. You wouldn’t throw your gum wrapper on the floor or leave an empty coffee cup in the corner of a lobby. Remember, there could be cameras watching you.

 

View this post on Instagram

 

A post shared by Diane Gottsman (@dianegottsman)

You may also like Office Etiquette Tips for Every Setting.

For more information about working with Diane, America’s “Go To” social and professional etiquette authority, please visit The Protocol School of Texas. 

See what Diane is up to by following her on Instagram and Facebook and find etiquette inspiration on her Pinterest account. For more of Diane’s etiquette tips, refer to her posts on Inc. and HuffPost. 

Signature

Diane Gottsman

Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert and modern manners professional, sought out industry leader, television personality, accomplished speaker, Huffington Post blogger, author, and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in executive leadership and etiquette training. Diane is routinely quoted in national and international media including The New York Times, The BBC, CNN, Bloomberg Business Week, Kiplinger, Huffington Post Canada, U.S. News and World Report, and Forbes. She is the resident etiquette expert for two popular morning talk shows, SA Living and Good Day Austin. She has been seen on The TODAY Show, HLN Headline News, WGN Chicago, and CBS Sunday Morning. Her clients range from university students to Fortune 500 companies and her workshops cover topics ranging from tattoos in the workplace to technology at the dinner table and the proper use of social media.

Facebook Twitter Pinterest Instagram

Search

Connect With Me!

Subscribe to Etiquette Expert Diane Gottsman's Blog by RSS Follow Etiquette Expert Diane Gottsman on Twitter Become a Fan of Etiquette Expert Diane Gottsman Follow Diane on Pinterest Follow Diane on Instagram Follow Etiquette Expert Diane Gottsman on Linkedin Check out my Etiquette Expert videos on YouTube

Categories

Etiquette Expert Diane Gottsman's Tweets
27 Jul 2023

Also, the nice thing about interviewing etiquette experts was they all returned my call. Thanks @Debretts @williamhanson Laura @PolishedManners and @DianeGottsman for bringing some clarity to protocol chaos

5 Jul 2023

Technology and the gig economy are playing a role in #tipping #etiquette. Sharing my thoughts on when to tip, skip, and how much with @cnbcmakeit: . #manners #gigeconomy #technology #modernmanners

19 Jun 2023

Become their favorite houseguest and spread kindness on your summer travels! Tips on the blog. ❤️🧳✈️🚗

https://dianegottsman.com/2023/06/19/houseguest-etiquette-reminders-for-the-summer/

#travel #houseguest #etiquette #manners #kindess #modernmanners #etiquetteexpert

3

Load More

Media




Join My Mailing List

Recently Quoted In

  • Yahoo! News 5/20/25
  • MSN 5/20/25
  • The Independent 5/20/25
  • Better Homes & Gardens 5/3/2025
  • Brides.com 4/21/25
  • New York Post 3/18/25
  • Yahoo News
  • Fox News 4/17/25
  • AOL
  • Southern Living 4/11/25
  • Fox News 4/10/25
  • Huff Post 4/1/25
  • Huff Post 3/28/25
  • Bored Panda 3/25/25
  • Daily Skimm 3/8/25
  • Newsweek 1/29/25
  • Reader’s Digest 1/29/25
  • NY Post 1/26/25
  • Rent.com 1/24/25
  • Wide Open Spaces 1/18/25
  • Men’s Journal 1/11/25
More ...

Copyright © 2025 · | Site by: Simply Amusing Designs



Diane Gottsman is a national etiquette expert, sought after industry leader, and owner of The Protocol School of Texas,
a company specializing in executive leadership and business etiquette training.

We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it.OkNoPrivacy Policy