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Baby Shower Etiquette

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If you’re organizing a dreamy baby shower complete with fluffy cupcakes and creative games or expecting a new arrival yourself, there are a few things to keep in mind. As a host, remember to allow yourself plenty of time to prepare, ask for help when you need it, and aim for clear communication. I’m sharing links to a variety of articles on the topic of baby shower etiquette below.

Baby Shower Q and A (via The Huffington Post)
The following is a fun and friendly Q and A to help you politely stroll through baby shower season unscathed.
Q: Can immediate family members host a baby shower?
A: Traditionally, a family member should not host a shower for a daughter, sister or other close relative. However, when good friends don’t offer to step in, an immediate member of the family can get by with hosting a small (or large) gathering, in honor of the mother, and to celebrate the upcoming birth … [ Read More ]

Baby Shower Etiquette
Baby showers are a wonderful way for friends and family to come together to celebrate an upcoming birth, and honor the mom-to-be. If you are hosting the shower, here are a few tips to help you throw a successful party: Consider the expectant mother’s wishes. Ask her how involved she would like to … [ Read More ]

Gifts Ideas for a Baby Born With a Silver Spoon in Her Mouth
It’s thrilling to share the joy of a newborn baby, and even more royal when the baby’s mother is Kate Middleton. What are a few things you can gift to show your love and support when the parents clearly have a well-appointed nursery? Perhaps not to the Royal Family, but here are a few gift ideas for mannerly inspiration:
A library of classics. Get together with friends and create a mini-library in honor of the new bundle of joy. Coordinate a list of baby books, or a group of classics that will become a keepsake. Some of my favorites are Good Night Moon, Love You Forever, The Giving Tree, and Five Little Monkeys …  [ Read More ]

What Not to Say to a New Mom
New mothers are a Pandora’s Box of emotions. A fussy baby, sleepless nights, hormones, and recovering from labor can make her more sensitive than her usual self. Even well-intentioned words from family and friends can come across as insensitive. Every new mother’s experience is unique, and here are … [ Read More ]

Planning Checklists

  • You may also find this Real Simple Baby Shower Checklist helpful if you’ll be hosting a shower in the near future.
  • Or, for a print-friendly version, visit Planning the Perfect Shower via Parents.com.

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